Wednesday 22 May 2013

LOVE GONE SOUR

What happens when Love gone sour?  What happens when that makes two-love laugh stops? This is a true-life story of Blessing Ikhumhi and Cyril Okoson.

 If anyone had told Blessing Ikhumhi that Okosun Cyril, the man she once loved, would turn around and bath her with acid, she would not have believed it. Neighbours and friends used to see the duo as Shakespeare’s ‘Romeo and Juliet’. But they were wrong. Even Blessing once saw him as “the best thing that could ever happen to her,” because she never believed the words of William Shakespeare, which asserts that, “there are daggers in men’s smile.”

 Their romance turned sour with tragic consequence for Blessing, a 23-year-old student of Edo State School of Health Technology. If she would ever regain her sight she would see all men as “monsters” because she has seen “hell” in the last three months as a patient at the University of Benin Teaching Hospital (UBTH), Benin City. Doctors in the hospital believe she may never see again except she is flown to a specialist hospital in India, where her sight could be restored. Blessing’s story is a sad one.

 Her ordeal began when she told his boyfriend, who is now in police custody in Benin, that she was no longer interested in what she described as “uninspiring relationship.” The news did not go down well with him. He visited her house and asked for a talk. The victim had gone outside to meet with the man whom she thought might have come to settle with her and probably, persuade her to continue in the relationship, but to Blessing’s shock, she was bathed with acid. From that fateful day, she has seized to see and has been on admission at the UBTH. “He was my boyfriend and we had arguments in February. He beat me to the extent that I was not able to go to school for three days. I told him I was no longer interested in the relationship. He later tried to forcibly take my telephone, but I refused to give it to him. I told him he was not the one who bought it for me.”

 “On March 23, he called and asked me to meet him in front of our house. I refused initially, but he insisted, so I came out. He asked: “Do you mean you don’t want me again?” I said: “No! I was no more interested in the relationship. And immediately, he poured the acid on my face. Since that day, I have been on admission at the UBTH and the doctors say I might not see again except I am flown to India where my eyes could be restored. “. She noted that Cyril was the last person she expected to treat her so badly.

“I never knew he would have the heart to pour acid on me. I made a mistake. I have learnt the biggest lesson of my life. My prayer now is that God should touch kind-hearted Nigerians to come to my aide so that I would be able to get treatment abroad, since my parents cannot afford it.” Ikhumhi, a native of Fugar, Etsako Local Council of Edo State, has pleaded with public-spirited Nigerians to come to her aid.

 Domestic violence has been on the increase nowadays as aggrieved lovers have been pouring acid on their estranged partners. In March 2010, Oluwatoyin Safiu Morufu, from Oyo State, was reportedly bathed with acid by his wife of over 16 years, Uloma Beatrice, from Abia State.

 In 2011, a suspect, Samson Igbinomewahin, 47, was arraigned at an Ebute Metta Chief Magistrate‘s Court, Lagos, for allegedly pouring acid on his wife, Mrs. Susan Jeremiah, 31.

Also, a 35-year-old man, Ndubisi Okoro in 2011 allegedly bathed his wife, Anthonia, with acid. He was arraigned before an Apapa Magistrate’s Court in Lagos, charged with attempted murder. In November 10, 2012, a jilted man in Ikotun, an outskirt of Lagos, bathed his wife with acid.

Men of Ikotun Police Division immediately arrested him. The list keeps rising everyday as acid bath has become a weapon of revenge.

 http://ngrguardiannews.com/index.php? option=com_content&view=article&id=122302:man- bathes-girlfriend-with- acid&catid=3:metro&Itemid=558

MAPOLY: REACTIONS TRAIL RESUMPTION DATE

 There were outpour of reactions and counter-reactions from the students of Moshood Abiola Polytechnic, lecturers as well as other stakeholders on the Institution.

 Some students expressed joy when news of the resumption reached them while few were not bother. Another categories of students were more concerned about the yet-to-be results of last session's second semester result. Here are some of the comments as posted online

1.) Ijoba Mapoly posted MAPOLY GREATEST NIGERIAN STUDENT!!!!!!!!!!! Greatest mapaites!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Despite the on going asup nation wide strike,the management of moshood abiola polytechnic as announced june 3rd as the resumption date for second semester academic session of 2012/2013.

 2.) Daramola Oluwabunmi its a lie, cuz i spoke wit mr aina david few seconds bck nw he syd NO.
 3.) Junaid Bola posted R u guys sure.
 4.) Comrade Moshood Muhammed posted If ASUP strike hasn't stopped by that date, who will lecture the students if they resume back to school? Fellow Mapaites, quite sure MAPOLY will like to follow d academic calender, buh might be forced not to do so coz of this ASUP strike. #fact#Meanwhile, anything can still happen....
 5.) Mallam Adewale Abdulghaffar Adeleye posted @ Daramola &Moshood, any info u see on dis page is from d Horse' mouth, we are not part of dos spreading RUMORS. Note dat! D info is d outcome of mgt's meeting in d early hours of yestaday. Howeva, it is Schl calendar dat 'll begin, if ASUP says its strike continues , den lecturers 'll nt come 2 class but schl Calendar 'll start counting by dat date. So, get it rite & NEVA mis-inform Students again on dis page. Undastand? .

 6.) Bada Yusuf Amoo posted Mr. Mallam, if the school calender would hav to begin as schedule by d mgt and students were in school while lecturers are not coming to class. You should then know that students' career would be jeopardize. As our spokesperson, you should let the management realises this, that its members would have to withdraw from ASUP strike if the school calender would start as schedule by the mgt. Consider the students' career, the expenses, the stress among others. Thank you, expecting more. updates.

18 MAPAITES ESCAPE ELECTRICUTION

 Eighteen students of the Moshood Abiola Polytechnic , Abeokuta, on Thursday narrowly escaped electrocution on their way to school. The incident occurred at Oluwo junction area of the town at about 7.45 a.m. when an electric pole belonging to the Power Holding Company of Nigeria (PHCN) fell on a bus conveying the students.

 The bus, a Nissan Urvan marked Lagos EW 78 SMK, was smashed on impact. However, luck was on the side of the students as there was no electricity supply in the area at the time of the incident. According to witnesses, the electric pole toppled after it was rammed into by a caterpillar belonging to the China Civil Engineering Construction Company (CCECC). The company, which is under contract from the Ogun State Government to repair major roads in the state, was carrying out construction works in the area where the accident occurred.

 The bus was coming from Oluwo area of the town and was trying to link Ojere/Kolobo road when it was stopped by a Traffic Compliance and Enforcement Agency (TRACE) official controlling the traffic situation at the junction. It was at that point that the pole fell on the vehicle. The students were immediately rescued from the smashed vehicle by on-lookers. The shaken bus driver, who gave his name as Ondo, attributed the narrow escape to God’s favour. He added that negotiation was on with the construction company on how to repair the damaged vehicle.

 When contacted, the Public Relations Officer of MAPOLY, Sulaiman Adebiyi, described the incident as an unfortunate one but said that all the students involved escaped without any injury. He also appealed to parents to remain calm as the situation was under control.

“It is a very unfortunate incident but we thank God all our students involved are now in school receiving lectures,” he said.

MAPOLY RESUMES FOR 2ND SEMESTER

 The Management of Moshood Abiola Polytechnic; Abeokuta has slated 3rd June,2013 has its resumption date for the 2012/2013 2nd semester Academic session.

 The resumption date is the result of the prolonged hours meeting held between the School's Governing Council and Management board. What is uncertain and as discussed in the meeting is the teaching staffs readiness to resume lectures due to ASUP nationwide strike.

 Earlier this month, the National Exco of the Academic Staff Union of Polytechnics, ASUP declared the no-going-back-until-our-demands-are-met strike in order to press home their cries and enforce Federal government positive response.

 Though, the S.U.G Caretaker Committe Chairman, Mallam Adewale Abdulghaffar was optimistic and positive of the resumption date but calls to the school Public Relation Officer, mr Suleiman Adebiyi was not answered while text messages to mr Ogunshipe the Students Affairs Officer was not replied.